Top-Rated Virtual Divorce & Family Mediation in Minnesota
Professional mediation.
Zero stuffiness.
We wear flannel. We cite research. We get results.
At Flannel People Mediation, we help Minnesota families resolve conflict and move forward — from the comfort of home. 100% virtual, evidence-based, and surprisingly human.
Tried, tested, trusted mediation
Virtual Mediation
100% Virtual
You Decide
Not a judge — you control the outcome
4.9 Stars
256 Google reviews proving results
100% Virtual
Meet from anywhere
Flat-Fee Pricing
No hourly billing surprises
Why Families Across Minnesota Choose Flannel People
Professional, personal, and actually helpful
We Show Up in Flannel
Because real conversations happen when people feel comfortable. No stuffy suits, just genuine humans helping you find clarity.
We Cite Research
Every session backed by psychology and conflict resolution science—not just "trust us." Evidence-based methods that actually work.
We Get Results
4.9 out of 5 stars from 256 Google reviews. Results matter more than professional credentials or fancy offices.
100% Virtual
No travel, no awkward waiting rooms, no extra stress. Mediate from your couch in your most comfortable clothes.
Our clients breathe easier.
Don't just take our word for it. Here's what our clients say.
Based on 256 Google Reviews
OUR SERVICES
Mediation for Real Life
Professional mediation without the stuffy suits. Whether you're separating or strengthening, we help you resolve conflict and move forward.
Divorce Mediation
Divide assets, create parenting plans, handle support — without the courtroom drama. Many couples reach a full agreement in a single session.
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Couples Mediation
Communication breakdowns, trust issues, or just feeling stuck — we use research-backed techniques to help you reconnect before things escalate.
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Post-Decree
Life changes. Custody schedules, support amounts, and co-parenting plans can change too — resolve disagreements outside of court.
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Family Mediation
Elder care decisions, inheritance disputes, sibling conflicts, blended family dynamics — we help families have the conversations they've been avoiding.
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How It Works
A process designed around your needs, not ours
Free Consultation
We listen, answer your questions, and make sure we're the right fit. No pressure.
Planning Session
We design a custom process that matches your unique situation and goals.
The Mediation Work
Guided, respectful conversations (virtual) where we tackle the tough topics together.
You Move Forward
With clarity on all issues, you're equipped to finalize agreements or take next steps with confidence.
The Science
Neuroscience meets mediation
Neuroscience shows us that when people are in conflict, their brains activate the threat response. Cortisol and adrenaline flood the system, and rational thinking goes offline. Mediation works because we create psychological safety—a space where both people can think clearly again.
Through guided conversations informed by attachment theory and behavioral science, we help couples and families move from blame to understanding. You're not changing who you are or what you believe. You're just getting unstuck together.
Real Minnesota Families, Real Results
What people are saying
"Ryan's calmness, casual approach, insights, and cohesiveness throughout the session helped us get through very difficult topics. I was relieved to find someone who spoke to us and for us."
— David H.
"As a family law attorney, I often refer potential clients to Ryan before they engage legal counsel. Some issues can be resolved more effectively through mediation rather than through the courts."
— Padraic Walsh, Attorney
"Ryan is a very relaxed but knowledgeable mediator. Not stuffy or formal at all, which helped me feel at ease during the process. After our session I felt informed and clear on how to move forward."
— Alexandra Rose
Our clients breathe easier.
Don't just take our word for it. Here's what our clients say.
Based on 256 Google Reviews
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